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Then think of someone you love. It may be your partner, friend, child or neighbor. It is important to focus on the first person who comes to your mind, so that you remain totally in the moment with this meditation. Repeat the whole process bringing each of the four components to someone you love. Then think of someone you are neutral about. This could be your students, people travelling on the bus with you, or homeless children. Whoever comes first to your mind, then proceed in the same way as before. Then think of someone you are having difficulties with, who you dislike or even hate. The person you are having difficulties with may be someone you love, or it may even be yourself. It may be someone who has recently hurt you, or who subjected you to harm in the past. Whoever your consciousness delivers to your attention, that person is your focus. There may be surprises, as often the person we have the most difficulties with is oneself! Identify the difficulty if you can, so that negative energy around your perception of the situation and person can be healed. Then do the whole fourfold process of bringing Love, Compassion, Joy and Equanimity to the person you are having difficulties with, or whom you dislike or even hate. Finally come back to yourself, even if you have just been dealing with personal difficulties. This last time, think of the four components of this meditation as embracing you in such warmth and kindness, celebrating all the best things in you, nurturing all the positive seeds. Know that a deep healing has taken place. At the end, just sit for a while and breathe in and out of the wonderful energy you have created for yourself and others. |