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LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS MEDITATION
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quietly. Keep your spine straight and just let go of everything as you relax. You will
need a small bell, as this meditation has different sections, which are divided by the
sound of a bell. The resonance of the bell, once it is gently invited to sound, takes the
meditation deep into your cells, body and consciousness. Initially you will breathe slowly
and deeply for ten breaths, just noticing the quality of your breath as you breathe in and
out. Then you invite the bell once. As the resonance of the bell fades into silence, read
or say out loud the first sentence on the in- breath, and the second sentence on the
out-breath. For instance with section 1 of the meditation, read on the In-breath
Contemplating the attractive body of a woman or a man, I breathe in. Read on
the Out-breath Seeing the impermanent nature of that body, I breathe out. Then continue silently inside for ten breaths with the key
words. For instance in section 1 of the meditation, the key words are:
In-breath/Attractive body: Out-breath/ Impermanent nature of body. At the end of ten
breaths using these key words, invite the bell once more and wait until it falls silent.
Then continue with the next section in exactly the same way. First of all reading the
sentences (or saying them out loud), then continuing silently inside for ten breaths with
the key words.
This meditation brings us face to face with the
danger, suffering and hardships caused by our cravings, desires and attachments. As we
shine the light of awareness on our weaknesses, we stop watering these seeds, because we
are seeing deeply into the consequences of our patterns of attachment - of our pursuit of
fame, money and sensual pleasures. We gain the strength to enter life renewed, and stop
wasting our energy agonizing over our desires and ego attachments. There is a clear step
of letting go, first by acknowledging with our mindfulness that the patterns are there,
then choosing to let them go. In this we are assisted by the focus and concentration on
breath - In-breath and Out-breath - which keeps us in the present moment and allows us to
see whatever is there, just as it is. That places us firmly in the consciousness of the
heart, and enables letting go and transformation to happen. Mindfulness, seeing clearly
and locating yourself in the present moment of heart consciousness are the keys. |
So sit quietly and begin.
Take ten slow breaths in and out, noticing the quality of the in-breath and the quality of
the out-breath. Then invite the bell to sound once. Read the first sentence on the
in-breath, the second sentence on the out-breath. Continue for ten breaths using the key
words on the in-breath and out-breath respectively. Then invite the bell to sound once
more. Wait a short while for the resonance of the bell to fade into silence, then begin
the second section of the meditation, following exactly the same structure of the section
you have just completed.
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The meditation I wish
to do with you is one that is drawn from Thay Nhat Hanhs book of meditations The
Blooming of a Lotus. I have used this one many times, to good effect, and have adapted it
slightly. Of all the meditations that directly apply our mindfulness to attachments I have
found this one to be the most powerful. |
Thay Nhat Hanh says of this meditation:
This exercise helps us to see the impermanence as well as the dangers,
complications and hardships of our endless pursuit of material and sensual pleasure -
whether that pleasure takes the form of a beautiful man or woman, riches and possessions,
fame, or other objects of desire. (1993, 65).
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| 1. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the attractive body of a woman or a man,
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of that body.
I breathe out. |
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Attractive body
Impermanent nature of body |
| 2. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Danger from craving sex
Letting go |
| 3. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Suffering from craving sex
Letting go |
| 4. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Hardship from craving sex
Letting go |
| 5. |
(Bell)
Contemplating running after possessions,
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of possessions,
I breathe out. |
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Running after possessions
Impermanent nature of possessions |
| 6. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for wealth can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Danger from craving wealth
Letting go |
| 7. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for wealth can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Suffering from craving wealth
Letting go |
| 8. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for wealth can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Hardship from craving wealth
Letting go |
| 9. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the pursuit of fame,
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of fame,
I breathe out. |
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Pursuit of fame
Impermanent nature of fame |
| 10. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for fame can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Danger from craving fame
Letting go |
| 11. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for fame can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Suffering from craving fame
Letting go |
| 12. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for fame can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Hardship from craving fame
Letting go |
| 13. |
(Bell)
Contemplating my greed for things,
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of fame,
I breathe out. |
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Greediness
Impermanent nature of things |
| 14. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my greed for things can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Danger from greed
Letting go |
| 15. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my greed for things can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Suffering from greed
Letting go |
| 16. |
(Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my greed for things can bring about, I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving,
I breathe out. |
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Hardship from greed
Letting go |
| 17. |
(Bell)
Contemplating letting go of cravings,
I breathe in.
Contemplating letting go of cravings,
I breathe out. |
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Letting go
Letting go |
| 18. |
(Bell)
Filling myself with love and light,
I breathe in.
Filling myself with love and light,
I breathe out. |
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Love and light
Love and light
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