Ian Prattis

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LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS MEDITATION

Sit comfortably and quietly. Keep your spine straight and just let go of everything as you relax. You will need a small bell, as this meditation has different sections, which are divided by the sound of a bell. The resonance of the bell, once it is gently invited to sound, takes the meditation deep into your cells, body and consciousness. Initially you will breathe slowly and deeply for ten breaths, just noticing the quality of your breath as you breathe in and out. Then you invite the bell once. As the resonance of the bell fades into silence, read or say out loud the first sentence on the in- breath, and the second sentence on the out-breath. For instance with section 1 of the meditation, read on the In-breath “Contemplating the attractive body of a woman or a man, I breathe in”. Read on the Out-breath “Seeing the impermanent nature of that body, I breathe out.”

Then continue silently inside for ten breaths with the key words. For instance in section 1 of the meditation, the key words are: In-breath/Attractive body: Out-breath/ Impermanent nature of body. At the end of ten breaths using these key words, invite the bell once more and wait until it falls silent. Then continue with the next section in exactly the same way. First of all reading the sentences (or saying them out loud), then continuing silently inside for ten breaths with the key words.

This meditation brings us face to face with the danger, suffering and hardships caused by our cravings, desires and attachments. As we shine the light of awareness on our weaknesses, we stop watering these seeds, because we are seeing deeply into the consequences of our patterns of attachment - of our pursuit of fame, money and sensual pleasures. We gain the strength to enter life renewed, and stop wasting our energy agonizing over our desires and ego attachments. There is a clear step of letting go, first by acknowledging with our mindfulness that the patterns are there, then choosing to let them go. In this we are assisted by the focus and concentration on breath - In-breath and Out-breath - which keeps us in the present moment and allows us to see whatever is there, just as it is. That places us firmly in the consciousness of the heart, and enables letting go and transformation to happen. Mindfulness, seeing clearly and locating yourself in the present moment of heart consciousness are the keys.

So sit quietly and begin. Take ten slow breaths in and out, noticing the quality of the in-breath and the quality of the out-breath. Then invite the bell to sound once. Read the first sentence on the in-breath, the second sentence on the out-breath. Continue for ten breaths using the key words on the in-breath and out-breath respectively. Then invite the bell to sound once more. Wait a short while for the resonance of the bell to fade into silence, then begin the second section of the meditation, following exactly the same structure of the section you have just completed.



A Lotus


The meditation I wish to do with you is one that is drawn from Thay Nhat Hanh’s book of meditations The Blooming of a Lotus. I have used this one many times, to good effect, and have adapted it slightly. Of all the meditations that directly apply our mindfulness to attachments I have found this one to be the most powerful.


Thay Nhat Hanh says of this meditation:

This exercise helps us to see the impermanence as well as the dangers, complications and hardships of our endless pursuit of material and sensual pleasure - whether that pleasure takes the form of a beautiful man or woman, riches and possessions, fame, or other objects of desire. (1993, 65).

1. (Bell) 
Contemplating the attractive body of  a woman or a man,

I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of  that body.
I breathe out.

Attractive body

Impermanent nature of body
2. (Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Danger from craving sex

Letting go
3. (Bell) 
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Suffering from craving sex

Letting go
4. (Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for sex can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Hardship from craving sex

Letting go
5. (Bell)
Contemplating running after possessions, 
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of possessions, 

I breathe out.

Running after possessions

Impermanent nature of possessions
6. (Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for wealth can bring about, 
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Danger from craving wealth


Letting go
7. (Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for wealth can bring about, 
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Suffering from craving wealth


Letting go
8. (Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for wealth can bring about, 
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Hardship from craving wealth


Letting go
9. (Bell)
Contemplating the pursuit of fame, 
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of fame, 

I breathe out.

Pursuit of fame

Impermanent nature of fame
10. (Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my craving for fame can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Danger from craving fame

Letting go
11. (Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my craving for fame can bring about, 
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Suffering from craving fame


Letting go
12. (Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my craving for fame can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Hardship from craving fame


Letting go
13. (Bell)
Contemplating my greed for things, 
I breathe in.
Seeing the impermanent nature of fame, 

I breathe out.

Greediness

Impermanent nature of things
14. (Bell)
Contemplating the danger that my greed for things can bring about,
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Danger from greed

Letting go
15. (Bell)
Contemplating the suffering that my greed for things can bring about, 
I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Suffering from greed


Letting go
16. (Bell)
Contemplating the hardship that my greed for things can bring about, I breathe in.
Letting go of the craving, 
I breathe out.

Hardship from greed

Letting go
17. (Bell)
Contemplating letting go of cravings, 
I breathe in.
Contemplating letting go of cravings, 
I breathe out.

Letting go

Letting go
18. (Bell)
Filling myself with love and light,

I breathe in.
Filling myself with love and light,

I breathe out.

Love and light

Love and light


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